{"id":19899,"date":"2023-06-15T13:40:11","date_gmt":"2023-06-15T11:40:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stadtsprachen.de\/de\/?post_type=stsp_text&#038;p=19899"},"modified":"2023-06-19T17:55:17","modified_gmt":"2023-06-19T15:55:17","slug":"infidelities","status":"publish","type":"stsp_text","link":"https:\/\/stadtsprachen.de\/en\/text\/infidelities\/","title":{"rendered":"Infidelities"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last summer your best friend\u2019s mistress visited<br \/>\nthis summer, your best friend\u2019s wife visited<br \/>\nI have more in common with the mistress<br \/>\nbut I like the wife better.<\/p>\n<p>your best friend&#8217;s mistress tells me<br \/>\nhe\u2019s the most interesting person she has ever met<br \/>\nbut he&#8217;s just a man who has seen war and makes movies<\/p>\n<p>we love to fall in love with them<br \/>\nthey must know everything<br \/>\nhaving suffered it all before<\/p>\n<p>your best friend&#8217;s wife asks if I&#8217;ve ever seen his face change<br \/>\nwhen he talks about the past<br \/>\nsimilar sentiment, less worshipful approach<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be such an apology<br \/>\neven if your country did invade his<br \/>\nand maybe you&#8217;ll catch a commitment.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s coffee and cake in a green and gold park<br \/>\nand something treacherous<br \/>\nnot just about sitting with his wife<br \/>\nwhere I&#8217;ve sat with his mistress<\/p>\n<p>but about trading secondhand war stories<br \/>\nfrom men who have tried to forget them<br \/>\nin our white-out arms from good families.<\/p>\n<p>it&#8217;s my first powerful secret<br \/>\nmy first, I wish you hadn&#8217;t told me that<br \/>\nit&#8217;s my one hundredth please, don\u2019t let me be like these women<\/p>\n<p>You once called me clueless about common infidelities<br \/>\na bit dramatic<br \/>\nbut here I sit on an adultery<br \/>\nhardly wobbling at all.<\/p>\n<p>When parents do it at least you can blame the seventies<br \/>\nand tell yourself you turned out fine.<\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s worse: a cheating father, a cheating husband,<br \/>\nor your cheating best friend<br \/>\nwho didn&#8217;t even ask before he sent his mistress<br \/>\nand then his wife<br \/>\nto ruin two of my summers in a row?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last summer your best friend\u2019s mistress visited this summer, your best friend\u2019s wife visited I have more in common with the mistress but I like the wife better. your best friend&#8217;s mistress tells me he\u2019s the most interesting person she has ever met but he&#8217;s just a man who has seen war and makes movies [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":19865,"template":"","categories":[54,11],"class_list":["post-19899","stsp_text","type-stsp_text","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-issue-25","category-lyrik"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.7 - 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